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			<title><![CDATA[Celebrate Their Eighteenth Birthday In Style]]></title>
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				<p>For teenagers, there are very few birthdays that beat their eighteenth birthday. This birthday is all about turning into an adult and entering into adult-like responsibilities, which, you hope, is why the way that people go about celebrating their 18th birthdays is so important.</p>
<p>From the birthday party down to the party invitations, eighteenth birthday parties are not just your run of the mill birthday gathering. The birthday and the invitations are equally important to one another, as they carry a great deal of importance. The invitations to this birthday party carry importance, because it can express the importance of a person's entrance into adulthood, and they should reflect this. When you think of an eighteenth birthday, what comes to mind?</p>

<p>The end of childhood, merging into adulthood, taking on adult like responsibilities like paying bills, getting a place, going to college. Of course, it does not always happen exactly this way, but recognizing eighteen year birthdays and having a party celebrating this day is a great way to encourage responsible adult behaviors. The importance of eighteenth-year birthdays, parties, and party invitations varies from person to person.</p>
<p>As an adult, you might wonder why anybody would be in a rush to be one, but 18th birthdays bring so much along with them, like the legal ability to buy cigarettes and other tobacco products and the ability to smoke them. People even get the legal ability to vote and even the legal ability to enter the military. Even if you wonder who in their right mind wants to go to war, but there are plenty of young people out there who are looking forward to the responsibility.</p>
<p>It can be said that at this point, there is as much to look forward to as there is to be concerned about. There is so much to have to worry about once the eighteenth year hits that only adults, who have already been there can see how the birthday is not all it is cracked up to be. Keep in mind that this birthday is important to the birthday boy or girl, even if it is a bit of a depressing one, and it opens so many doors as far as work, school, and the future go.</p>
<p>When you have an 18th birthday party, you want to celebrate the life of your eighteen year old with dignity and respect. This means no Blue's Clue's party invitations and no Rugrats party invitations either, no matter how much your eighteen year old still enjoys the show. The party invitation should reflect the seriousness of the age, while still conveying the fun time to be had at the affair and encourage people to come out and share in the celebration.</p>
<p>Just as eighteenth-year birthdays are important, again, so is the party, but you do not want to have the same type of party you had every other year. Movie or television show theme parties, decade parties such as eighty's parties are also deemed fun and appropriate eighteenth birthday shindigs. Formal affairs are also one of the more popular ways to ring in the eighteenth year as well. It is also a great way to make the tons of dollars spent on prom dresses well worth it, as it gives parents and friends the opportunity to reuse these dresses and make even better on the hefty investment they made in them, probably never thinking that they would be able to use them again.</p>
<p>These birthdays are an important time in any ones life, and it is important to treat them as such. While the birthday may not automatically transform a teenager into an adult, this milestone birthday might help your teenager begin to accept the responsibilities of adulthood with a bit better of an attitude. Sure the working world and college are not all that they are cracked up to be. At eighteen, most people fail to realize that.</p>

About the Author:<br />
<p>Victor Epand is a consultant for personalized gifts, invitations, and fine jewelry. Find the best shopping for <a href="http://www.4personalizedgifts.info" target="_blank">personalized gifts</a>, <a href="http://www.invitationgreetings.info" target="_blank">eighteenth birthdays</a>, and <a href="http://www.4finejewelry.info" target="_blank">fine jewelry</a>.</p>
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			<pubDate>Tue, 15 Sep 2009 20:18:21 +0000</pubDate>
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			<title><![CDATA[18th Birthday Gift Ideas For A Girl]]></title>
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				<p>Are you getting ready to celebrate an 18 year old birthday for someone that you
love and have no idea what they would like? Well this is one of the most important
birthday's since they are getting ready to start their adulthood; you do not
want to disappoint them and get them something that they hate.</p>
<p>So what are some great 18th birthday gift ideas that anyone will love? Well we wanted to list some great things that will make anyone happy to get for their birthday. First of all the first thing that you want to do for your birthday boy or girl is to let them know how important they are to you.</p>
<p>They would love a birthday celebration with some of their closest friends. If you currently have a teenager in your home; then you know that they value their friendships and this would be one of the best 18th birthday gift ideas that you can provide. The main thing you will want to do is plan a night out with some friends so that they can have privacy without you in the house.</p>
<p>One thing that makes anyone happy and young adults is no different is money. People love to go shopping for their own items and this is the best way to ensure that you do not get them something they do not want. Women are into clothing however men are not. Just because guys are not into clothing as much as the women it does not mean that they do not love to shop. </p>
<p>Every 18 year old would love a new vehicle and while you may not have the money to purchase a new one; you could always help them find one for a great deal. You definitely should ensure that they could make the payments so that you would not get stuck with them. This will help them learn about responsibilities and the value of money.</p>
<p>Young 18 year olds are heavily into rock groups or other kinds of sporting or music events. They would love to go to a concert with a group of friends. You will discover that when they reach this age; it takes a lot more to please them than when they were a toddler.</p>
<p>If you want to find some other great 18th birthday gift ideas be sure to visit our site below. Even if your loved one is turning a different age; you will be able to find any kind of birthday gift ideas.</p>
<p>About the Author: KarenBrigit<br />Is Someone Getting Ready To Celebrate Their Birthday? Get Some Fantastic <a href="http://possiblebirthdaygiftidea.com/18th-birthday-gift-ideas" target="_blank"> 18th Birthday Gift Ideas</a> That Will Knock Their Socks Off. </p>
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			<pubDate>Tue, 15 Sep 2009 20:01:07 +0000</pubDate>
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			<title><![CDATA[What is Kwanzaa?]]></title>
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				<p>Kwanzaa is a week-long holiday celebrated in the United States honoring African
heritage and culture, marked by participants lighting a kinara (candle holder).
It is observed from December 26 to January 1 each year, primarily in the United
States.</p>
<p>Kwanzaa consists of seven days of celebration, featuring activities such as
candle-lighting and pouring of libations, and culminating in a feast and gift
giving. It was created by Ron Karenga and was first celebrated from December
26, 1966, to January 1, 1967.<br />
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<h2>History and etymology</h2>
<p>Ron Karenga created Kwanzaa in 1966 as the first specifically African-American
holiday. Although the historical Juneteenth African American holiday had been
celebrated since the late 1800s, Karenga said his goal was to "...give Blacks
an alternative to the existing holiday and give Blacks an opportunity to celebrate
themselves and history, rather than simply imitate the practice of the dominant
society." The name Kwanzaa derives from the Swahili phrase "matunda
ya kwanza", meaning "first fruits". The choice of Swahili, an
East African language, reflects its status as a symbol of Pan-Africanism, especially
in the 1960s.</p>
<p>Kwanzaa is a celebration that has its roots in the black nationalist movement
of the 1960s, and was established as a means to help African Americans reconnect
with their African cultural and historical heritage by uniting in meditation
and study of "African traditions" and "common humanist principles." The
first Kwanzaa stamp was issued by the United States Postal Service on October
22, 1997 at the Natural History Museum in Los Angeles, California. In 2004 a
second Kwanzaa stamp, created by artist Daniel Minter was issued which has seven
figures in colorful robes symbolizing the seven principles.</p>
<p>During the early years of Kwanzaa, Karenga said that it was meant to be an
alternative to Christmas, that "Jesus was psychotic", and that Christianity
was a white religion that blacks should shun. However, as Kwanzaa gained mainstream
adherents, Karenga altered his position so as not to alienate practicing Christians,
then stating in the 1997 Kwanzaa: A Celebration of Family, Community, and Culture, "Kwanzaa
was not created to give people an alternative to their own religion or religious
holiday."</p>
<p>In 1997, Karenga and the community evolved, stating that while Kwanzaa is
an African-American holiday, it can be celebrated by people of any race: "other
people can and do celebrate it, just like other people participate in Cinco de
Mayo besides Mexicans; Chinese New Year besides Chinese; Native American pow
wows besides Native Americans."</p>
<p>Currently, according to the Official Kwanzaa Website authored by Karenga and
maintained by Organization US, which Karenga chairs, "Kwanzaa was not created
to give people an alternative to their own religion or religious holiday. And
it is not an alternative to people's religion or faith but a common ground of
African culture...Kwanzaa is not a reaction or substitute for anything. In fact,
it offers a clear and self-conscious option, opportunity and chance to make a
proactive choice, a self-affirming and positive choice as distinct from a reactive
one."</p>
<p>Karenga's most recent interpretation emphasizes that while every people has
its own holiday traditions, all people can share in the celebration of our common
humanity: "Any particular message that is good for a particular people,
if it is human in its content and ethical in its grounding, speaks not just to
that people, it speaks to the world."</p>
<p>The origins of Kwanzaa are not secret and are openly acknowledged by those
promoting the holiday. Many Christian African-Americans who celebrate Kwanzaa
do so in addition to observing Christmas.<br />
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<h2>Principles of Kwanzaa</h2>
<p>Kwanzaa celebrates what its founder called "The Seven Principles of Kwanzaa," or
Nguzo Saba (originally Nguzu Saba - "The Seven Principles of Blackness"),
which Karenga said "is a communitarian African philosophy" consisting
of what Karenga called "the best of African thought and practice in constant
exchange with the world." </p>
<p>These seven principles comprise Kawaida, a Swahili
term for tradition and reason. Each of the seven days of Kwanzaa is dedicated
to one of the following principles, as follows:</p>
<ol>
<li>Umoja (Unity) To strive for and to maintain unity in the family, community,
nation and race.<br /><br /></li>
<li>Kujichagulia (Self-Determination) To define ourselves, name ourselves, create
for ourselves and speak for ourselves.<br /><br /></li>
<li>Ujima (Collective Work and Responsibility) To build and maintain our community
together and make our brothers' and sisters' problems our problems and to solve
them together.<br /><br /></li>
<li>Ujamaa (Cooperative Economics) To build and maintain our own stores, shops
and other businesses and to profit from them together.<br /><br /></li>
<li>Nia (Purpose) To make our collective vocation the building and developing of
our community in order to restore our people to their traditional greatness.<br /><br /></li>
<li>Kuumba (Creativity) To do always as much as we can, in the way we can, in order
to leave our community more beautiful and beneficial than we inherited it.<br /><br /></li>
<li>Imani (Faith) To believe with all our heart in our people, our parents, our teachers, our leaders and the righteousness and victory of our struggle.<br /><br /></li>
</ol>
<h2>Popularity</h2>
<p>In President George W. Bush's 2004 Presidential Kwanzaa Message, he said that, "During
Kwanzaa, millions of African Americans and people of African descent gather to
celebrate their heritage and ancestry. Kwanzaa celebrations provide an opportunity
to focus on the importance of family, community, and history, and to reflect
on the Nguzo Saba or seven principles of African culture. These principles emphasize
unity, self-determination, collective work and responsibility, cooperative economics,
purpose, creativity, and faith."</p>
<p>In 2004 BIGresearch conducted a marketing survey in the United States for
the National Retail Foundation, which found that 1.6% of those surveyed planned
to celebrate Kwanzaa. If generalized to the US population as a whole, this would
imply that around 4.7 million Americans planned to celebrate Kwanzaa in that
year. In a 2006 speech, Maulana Karenga asserted that 28 million people celebrate
Kwanzaa. He has always maintained it is celebrated all over the world. Lee D.
Baker puts the number at 12 million.<br />
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<h2>Observance</h2>
<p>Families celebrating Kwanzaa decorate their households with objects of art,
colorful African cloth, especially the wearing of kaftans by women, and fresh
fruits that represent African idealism. It is customary to include children in
Kwanzaa ceremonies and to give respect and gratitude to ancestors. Libations
are shared, generally with a common chalice, "Kikombe cha Umoja" passed
around to all celebrants. Non-African Americans also celebrate Kwanzaa. The holiday
greeting is "joyous Kwanzaa."</p>
<p>A Kwanzaa ceremony may include drumming and musical selections, libations,
a reading of the "African Pledge" and the Principles of Blackness,
reflection on the Pan-African colors, a discussion of the African principle of
the day or a chapter in African history, a candle-lighting ritual, artistic performance,
and, finally, a feast (Karamu). The greeting for each day of Kwanzaa is "Habari
Gani," which is Swahili for "What's the News?"</p>
<p>At first, observers of Kwanzaa eschewed the mixing of the holiday or its symbols,
values and practice with other holidays. They felt that doing so would violate
the principle of kujichagulia (self-determination) and thus violate the integrity
of the holiday, which is partially intended as a reclamation of important African
values. Today, many African-American families celebrate Kwanzaa along with Christmas
and New Year's. Frequently, both Christmas trees and kinaras, the traditional
candle holder symbolic of African-American roots, share space in kwanzaa celebrating
households. To them, Kwanzaa is an opportunity to incorporate elements of their
particular ethnic heritage into holiday observances and celebrations of Christmas.</p>
<p>Cultural exhibitions include "The Spirit of Kwanzaa," an annual
celebration held at the John F. Kennedy Center for the Performing Arts featuring
interpretive dance, African dance, song and poetry. Kwanzaa is a week-long holiday
celebrated in the United States honoring African heritage and culture, marked
by participants lighting a kinara (candle holder). It is observed from December
26 to January 1 each year, primarily in the United States.<br />
</p>
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